Online Relationship Advice?
Here is my story. Please don't be rude, just dont answer if you are going to be rude. I live in AZ, my girlfriend lives in NY. We've never met but we really want to. Its a serious relationship to me and her. In my past girls have cheated on me, hurt me, and used me. I'm very controlling of my girlfriend in NY. Not scary controlling but like "what friends are you going out with type stuff". I dont want to lose her. I love her with everything that I am, but shes done some things that point that she could hurt me. Shes my perfect girl in every single way. I need her. It's just, shes about to break down because of my controllingness, but I cant help it because women cant be trusted. I've heard every excuse as far as cheating such as "He kissed me, I didnt want him to" and "I'm sorry I just wasnt thinking". I'm not immature, she isnt either, we're both old enough to understand true love and understand relationships, im just scared to lose her because I dont trust her, any ideas? Every girl i've known has cheated on me or hurt me, they really cant be trusted it seems. I do know what true love is, and you're right, it isnt how its described. I'm just very confused. I dont want to lose her so badly I feel like I have to get her to stay. The girls i've been with before have ALL been unfaithful and betrayed me and it seems like 95% of girls at this age are like that.

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I told him I was not ready for a relationship, but I wanted to be friends. Mostly, we talked on the phone. He said he hopes I change my mind, he still care for me, and I am close to his heart. He wanted to meet me. I told him I was not ready to meet. However, I got upset when he said he would give me a call but don't. We met online and I have not met him. He wished me a happy birthday. I did not wish him a birthday because I felt like he not calling me so why should I. He called me the day after his birthday. I did not give him a call back. He is 23 and I am 22. My dad was against me talking to someone online, so I am not sure if I want to meet and commit myself. I did not tell him that I liked him. Four months has passed, I keep thinking about him. I miss him. He spoke to my mother but she is more supportive. Now I called him twice but he is ignored me. I still like him. Should I move on?

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I told him I was not ready for a relationship, but I wanted to be friends. Mostly, we talked on the phone. He said he hopes I change my mind, he still care for me, and I am close to his heart. He wanted to meet me. I told him I was not ready to meet. However, I got upset when he said he would give me a call but don't. We met online and I have not met him. He wished me a happy birthday. After eight months, I did not wish him a birthday because I felt like he not calling me so why should I. He called me the day after his birthday. I did not give him a call back. He is 23 and I am 22. My dad was against me talking to someone online, so I am not sure if I want to meet and commit myself. I did not tell him that I liked him. Four months has passed, I keep thinking about him. I miss him. He spoke to my mother but she is more supportive. Now I called him twice but he ignored me. I still like him. I have known him for more than a year.

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