Diagnose me, fair ladies and gentlemen!?
I believe there is something wrong with me. Yes, there is something wrong with me, my interest in women is flipped out! I have never been in a serious relationship, and cross "serious", and thus never felt any sort of love. And as I turned 19 months ago I realised I must've been missing out on so much important stuff as a youngster. So now I started thinking about what girls I'm interested in, and it seems I only seem to fall for girls with a boyfriend. When I was 14-15 for two months I followed a girl, stalking her more correctly, but only after I knew she had a boyfriend. Now I realised I was checking out a classmate on facebook (a good friend she is aswell, bad me!) AFTER she had a boyfriend! There are numerous crushes I've had that are in the same category, but I don't want to bore you and I hate this laptop (can't press space properly!) What the f-word is wrong with me? Can somebody please tell me? 'Cuz if I seem to recall right, you don't make out with a girl who's totally into you, yet somehow cowering away, thinking you're in love with another girl, BECAUSE she has a BOYFRIEND! Satan take me! Please, any ideas what to do, or what this could be because of? Because if this continues, I'm afraid I might only write "interested in women with husbands" in my future online dating description, since I'll die alone.

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When can i ask a person i met online for their number?
So recently its hard for me to meet new girls the older i get. Im an 18 year old senior male in high school about to graduate and i know mostly everyone in my school. Honestly i would not date most of the girls there sadly. So i tried a dating site that my brother use and meets plenty of girls from. Its called pof.com or plenty of fish. It started slow like i thought it would but online dating sites arent as bad as what people make them out to be. I talked to a few girls but its only one that really blows my mind. She seems like my perfect type. I like short girls, who i can make laugh, and a person i can just talk to whenever. Plus i think shes cute in my opinion anyway. I go for personality thank god. If i didnt id just be another ordinary guy who just want to hit and quit it. I hate those guys cuz they make it hard for the good guys out there like me. But anyway i see two problems with her. One she is 21 years old and im 18. Idc about age but 3 years is pushing it id say anyway. And 2 idk when i should ask her for her number because its a dating site for a reason if i wait to long ima blow my chances at trying to get to know her better. So i just want to know your guys opinion on the whole age situation and when is a good time to ask for her number. BTW we've been talking for 5 days now and at times it takes each other a while to reply due to were both in school. Making me want her number even more...

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Am i being nieve, i love him.?
My boyfriend of 1 year and 3 months has recently in the last 2 months become a member of 2 online dating sites, I've only found out due to his email being on my phone and receiving an email at 3 In the morning telling me I have matches on 'sexfinder.com' he goes to a stripclub everytime he goes to town, and he 'used' (he tells me he hasn't for a while and it was only when we weren't together) he uses I watched it because we weren't together much atleast I wasn't cheating as his excuse for the porn but I only found out about the dating sites (sexfinder & yahoo dating) when I woke up this morning should I ask him about it I'm crying I'm so broken right now honestly what can he use as an excuse for joining a dating site 5 days after our one year, recently he told me because I caught him up in a lie and told him I'm sick of being lied to he responded I quote 'our relationship is a lie I'm with you unhappy to,be happy, there is your f**ken truth' end quote, I just blocked it out til we got home and I went for shower and just cried. I love him so much and honestly I couldnt imagine giving myself pleasure while watching someone that's not him I feel as though I'm being cheated on because with all if this I feel I'm not the only one he has eyes for and It's killing me :'/ honestly i need some advice and not advice that says leave him (I got that from my friends already) advice that helps me understand him because i don't want to loose him I love him so much.

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