Complicated long distance relationship problems?
Hi there. :] I'd really appreciate it if you guys could read my problem - it's a little complicated - and help me out if possible. Thank you. I'm a 15 year old girl and I met my 17 year old male friend during April. We both thought it best I didn't meet any of his friends, as we both knew they'd mock both him and me, due to my being 2 and a half years younger than him. He resides about 3 hours away from me, and because I couldn't tell my parents about our friendship, we were forced to maintain our friendship online. Up until July I just added him on Facebook, and chatted to him on msn occasionally, before starting to actually physically speak to him on Skype on a regular basis. I also got his phone number around this time. In August he told me he thought he loved me for first time. I considered him as like a best mate I cared a lot about to me, so I reluctantly returned it, basically so as not to hurt him. During August we grew a hell of a lot closer, almost constantly talking to each other on Skype or sending each other text messages, usually just chatting casually but sometimes telling each other how we felt. He began to compliment me on my looks as well as my personality for the first time. I really began to fall for him; he was so caring and compassionate, as well as funny. By the beginning of September, we started talking to each other sexually, and I was to blame for starting this. We never exchanged dirty pictures though. Our relationship went down hill after this.We talked to each other more and more then usual, but all we discussed were our feelings towards each other and sex; we hardly had a laugh anymore. This created a lot of tension between us and we argued far too much, ending in a tearful apology each time. He said the following things: "I love you more than anything", "you mean the world to me", "I want to spend my life with you", "I promise you'll never lose me", and much more. We arranged to meet up again in October and go to the cinema together. He told me he also wanted to buy me a birthday present. Then, at the end of September, after another big argument and tearful apology, he told me he wasn't sure how our relationship was gonna work, because of the distance. He then told me he doesn't feel the same about me anymore, and wants us to be nothing more than friends. I'll admit, I reacted badly, telling him again and again he must still feel something for me if he did before. He denied this each time, saying "things just aren't the same. I don't feel the same about you anymore, *****. I'm sorry." He listed all my qualities and told me he still thinks I'm perfect, and it's his fault he doesn't feel the same about me. I felt so hurt, so empty. I couldn't sleep, eat, or think straight, and I made the mistake of telling him this - constantly. He got fed up of this and started to ignore my texts for hours on end, and he refused to return my calls. He showed no caring or compassion towards my damaged feelings, and spoke selfishly about only what he wanted. He assured me he hasn't met anyone else, and I believe him. Apparently he just doesn't wanna be in a serious relationship, so he can enjoy life more. A couple of hours ago he answered my texts 10 hours after I sent them, saying he wants a break, and that there's nothing to discuss. We weren't in a relationship but we felt a lot for each other and had something special between us, and I want him as a friend at the least. He's been my entire world for months. Talking to him's the only thing that makes me truly happy. What should I do? I'm angry, upset, and terrified of losing him as a friend for good. If I agree to not talking to him for a while, will we grow further apart? Or will making him to talk to me about our feelings and what we should do just make it worse? Please help me. :[ He told me later yesterday night that he'd text me today around 6ish so we could talk things over, and he didn't, so I texted him at half 7 saying nothing more than his name. He said he couldn't talk to me 'cause he felt too ill and tired, and I asked him EXTREMELY politely if he just didn't wanna talk to me. He then had a go at me, ignored my next text, and turned off his phone. I don't understand. :\

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Long distance relationship problem, pls help..?
I've been with this guy for 2 months. One month we spent it in our hometown, but then we had to go to university, in separate cities. It's a 3 hour driving distance. We talk on the phone, on messenger, but what bothers me is that it's been 2 weeks and he didn't say when he wants to meet me again. Last time I went to his town 2 weeks ago, and that's because I kinda invited myself. I am free on weekends and he knows that I can come to him anytime, but still nothing. Oh, and he doesn;t go to school and he doesn't work! He says he misses me, but I don;t know what to think.. What do you think? Is that normal? Thank you!

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Long distance relationship problem, I need some advice pls?
I've been with this guy for 2 months. One month we spent it in our hometown, but then we had to go to university, in separate cities. It's a 3 hour driving distance. We talk on the phone, on messenger, but what bothers me is that it's been 2 weeks and he didn't say when he wants to meet me again. Last time I went to his town 2 weeks ago, and that's because I kinda invited myself. I am free on weekends and he knows that I can come to him anytime, but still nothing. Oh, and he doesn;t go to school and he doesn't work! Today I asked him when we will see each other again and he said : soon. He says he misses me, but I don;t know what to think.. What do you think? Is that normal? Thank you!

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